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Girls' Guide to Guys
Friday, 16 July 2010
5 Ways To Send The Green-Eyed Monster After Your Ex!
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Your ex certainly still has feelings for you if your can make an ex jealous. He might even want to start seeing you again, depending on how strong the feelings are. The tips discussed here on making a man jealous have been used by someone successfully many times. Use these strategies cautiously, though, because there is also a great chance that you'll annoy him and push him away forever.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #1

The first tip is this: for a while, just don't have anything to do with your ex at all. This is time-tested, even if it doesn't make sense, but ignoring him for a while can be as effective as taking specific actions designed to make him jealous.  What if you're really over him, he might be thinking, or maybe you found another guy? You need to get him thinking about you.  The best way to do this is stop talking with him. You cannot follow him all over, or call at all hours of the day and night - that will only annoy him and drive him away. Let some space develop between the two of you before trying the second tip.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #2

The next step is just to be happy. Do the things you enjoy doing, even if you're used to doing them with your ex. This is like a law of nature - your ex is convinced that you can't have a good time or even be happy if he's not in the picture, so seeing that you're having a good time will make him jealous. Some of his jealousy will come from realizing that he's no longer the center of your universe. You'll also increase your attractiveness to him because a happy woman is more appealing, more sexy. Are there things you've been wanting to do, but you've been putting off?  Things like day trips, or classes?  Go ahead and do them! Get yourself a makeover - many women report that this is a very successful method to becoming happy without your ex. After your makeover, you'll be ready for the third step.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #3

Now it's time to see him face-to-face again - the third tip is to invite him to dinner. You've got this happy, positive aura about you, and likely a new makeover as well, and it's time he saw them face-to-face. Remember, it's been a while since the two of you have spoken, even if he's seen you here and there or his friends have told him that your active and happy. Don't talk about the old times you two spent together - talk about yourself and what you've been doing, and let him know how happy and active you really are. Of course he'll be jealous. You're happy, perhaps happier than he remembers ever seeing you, and you did it without him! Let him know that you had a nice evening and that you hope you can stay friends.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #4

The next tip is to date another man. You don't really think that just because the two of you broke up, it's okay with him that you see other guys, do you? Of course, if getting back together with your ex is your goal, don't get seriously involved with someone new! You can have a lot of fun and accomplish your "make my ex jealous" objective by just going on harmless, friendly dates. Your ex will find out about it - count on it, especially if you both frequent some of the same places or share some friends. It's knowing that someone else finds you attractive enough to date that will make him jealous - he'll be wondering if he missed something about you. This tip - date someone else - is crucial to the next tip, because you'll need a man you're comfortable with.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #5

This final tip is well-known, but it invariably elicits a reaction! Make certain to bring a date to any function you know your ex will be attending. It can be anything - a friend's birthday, or a barbecue, or a beach party - anything at all.  The key point is that your ex will be there, and he'll be able to see you and your date. Make sure your ex is aware that you're there, and then just have a good time with your date - laughing, smiling, flirting . . . You know your ex, and so make sure you don't do anything that might make him lose his temper. Here's something else to keep in mind - your date is doing you a big favor, whether or not he realizes it.  Don't embarrass him.

These tips are certain to drive your ex nuts with jealousy.  They might even move him to want to date you again! Jealousy only grows where feelings still exist, of course - but if they do exist, you'll have nurtured them so that they're constantly in his mind and heart. If there are no feelings there, of course, he won't get jealous, and your actions might even push him further away. If he got jealous, then you can be sure that the feelings are still there, and you've stoked them up again, and he's spending a lot of time thinking about you.  Now you've got to make a decision - do you want him back in your life?

Posted by girlsguidetoguys at 6:08 PM EDT

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